OUR SHARED SISSY VALUES
While each sissy’s path is unique, there are values we share—core experiences, desires, and transformations that unite us. At Be-The-Sissy.com, we’ve grouped these into three beautiful focal areas that support your journey toward authenticity: Feminization, Sissification, and Socialization.
These aren’t rules—they’re invitations. Explore each path in your own way, at your own pace.
FEMINIZATION
Feminization is how we begin to embody our truth—through beauty, self-care, style, and the outward expression of our feminine identity. It’s about aligning your reflection with your reality and finding joy in the way you look, move, and present yourself to the world.
SISSIFICATION
Sissification is the deeply personal mindset shift where surrender becomes sacred, shame transforms into pride, and obedience becomes joy. This is where you discover the pleasure, purpose, and erotic energy of fully embracing your identity as a sissy.
EMBRACE YOUR INNER SISSY
Whorification
Whorification is where your journey meets the world. It’s about building confidence, connecting with others, sharing your progress, and celebrating your milestones—whether online, in-person, or within a supportive community. It is about getting fucked and sucking a lot of cock.
SURRENDER AND SERVE
my life Story
The Chapters Of My Sissy Life
Only in recent years have I come to accept that I am a sissy. I spent my life pursuing a fantasy when what was real is that I am a sissy. I am a sissy now and I now know that I have always been a sissy.
The Sissy Granddaughter
For seven years of my life, my grandmother raised me as her granddaughter. This is my life to age twelve
The Sissy Girlfriend
Many would say it was wrong. However during my adolscent years I was a girlfriend to my brother sex — in every way we could imagine.
The Sissy Husband
From my senior year in high school through age thirty-nine, I live in denial. This included a marrage that would last seven years — but close to two years.
The Sissy Clubgirl
My middle age years were years of living a double life. On weekends I was Veronica. During the week, I was not.
The Unknown Sissy
As I enter the later years of my life, I came to know myself as a transgender woman. I should have known I was a sissy.
The Sissy Awakens
When I was four, my grandfather called me a sissy. My family was offended. Turns out he was right even way back then.
Identity + Femininity + Sexuality + Community = Authencity
Who am I, really? That’s the question at the heart of everything. Identity is where our stories begin — not with the labels others gave us, but with the truths we slowly uncover for ourselves. On this journey, I’ve come to see that becoming your true self is less about change and more about remembering who you’ve always been.
Femininity and sexuality are deeply personal — and deeply powerful. For many of us, embracing these parts of ourselves has meant unlearning shame and choosing pleasure, softness, strength, and self-expression instead. Our stories are as diverse as we are, but when we step into these energies with intention, we move closer to who we were meant to be.
And then there’s community — the space where we’re seen, accepted, and supported. Alone, authenticity can feel like a distant dream. But together, it becomes a daily practice. When we honor our identity, express our femininity, explore our sexuality, and do it all in community, we discover a kind of authenticity that isn’t about perfection — it’s about being whole.
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THE TRAINING VIDEOS
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SISSSY tRAINING VIDEOS
This section features curated training content designed to support sissies on their path of self-discovery, expression, and transformation. These are the kinds of videos many sissies seek out online—focused, affirming, and often arousing in the best way—for deepening their connection to the lifestyle.
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PORN VIDEOS
Here you’ll find content that embraces the sensual and erotic side of sissy life. These NSFW videos are shared in a respectful and celebratory spirit, recognizing that sexuality is an important and empowering part of many sissy journeys.
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YOUTUBe inspiration
These videos come from YouTube creators—crossdressers, trans women, and supportive genetic women—whose confidence, beauty, and authenticity light the way. Whether offering advice or simply living out loud, they remind us that inspiration can come from all corners of femininity.
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MY VIDEO WORKS
This is my creative space—original videos I’ve edited with Filmora that explore sissy identity, challenges, joys, and desires. These pieces are personal, thoughtful, and always made with love for those walking a similar path.
MY TRAINING
n this category, I share honest, often intimate moments from my own life as a sissy. These videos reflect where I am now and where I’m going—offering encouragement, vulnerability, and a growing sense of self.
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HOW TO VIDEOS
This section is full of practical, easy-to-follow guides on everything from makeup and voice training to fashion and confidence-building. These videos are here to help you become more comfortable and radiant in your sissy skin—one beautiful step at a time.
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